Let’s not Resort to Violence – Don’t Choose Violence
Odette
So this has been a pondering question of why I love to say, "Did you choose violence today? Or Don't choose violence!". How did I come up with the phrase or question? What exactly does it mean, what kind of violence is it, etc. Well, today is your Blessed and highly favored day. Why? Because I am finally coming clean about my memorable phrase…YAYYYY!!!
“Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret—it leads only to evil. ”
Hi, my beautiful thorns & Roses, aka "Bloomers ." How in the heavens are ya today? Are you feeling good, okay, or meh? I hope you being here improves your day by 1000%. I've missed you! Question…did you choose violence today? Or are you choosing to smell the roses, drink water & mind your business? As for me (for those wondering), I wanted to choose violence because I had not one, not two, but three uncircumcised philistines try me this past month. Listen to me, "Mama Bloomer" wanted to choose violence terribly, but I held my peace. I was "Daniel in the Lion's Den". Anyway… let's get into this; I promise I will do my best not to ramble.
Honestly, this phrase just came to me; between creating videos on my YouTube channel and learning more about life & how cruel this world can be, it just happened, even around my family, friends, colleagues, acquaintance, etc. I am known for it. The funny thing is, and not being boastful, but I even notice more of them say it too. Since I am "saved," like my Aunty "V" says, that can be a reason; not saying I am perfect, neither because I still have moments as well, but you know. Not to mention I simply don't have the mental capacity to deal with "special" things anymore. Although I have encountered a few Bible verses during my" Walk with the Lord," hence the one I mentioned above, another is more significant to me, but I'll discuss that in another post. Shortly after that, I decided to do my best and be intentional about "Not Choosing Violence."
Don't Choose Violence? When we hear the word "violence," we think it pertains to physical actions. Which is fair and all, but that is not what I mean precisely. Though it can mean it too…the phrase means refraining from anger and turning away from wrath. Side Joke: I know once my mom read this, she’s coming with some innocent "shade" towards me (our regular bonding jokes). In other words, they do not react to "special" situations. Whether it may be: someone or something getting you upset, feeling disrespected and not "reacting," being tested by uncircumcised philistines from Egypt who send for you when you sure as hell did not send for them. Simply doing your best to walk away, remaining calm, or for those like me, not being PETTY and shutting the whole world down. In a nutshell.
In full transparency, this phrase has caused me to transition and make a shift in my personal life. As I said, I am not perfect. I occasionally react depending on the situation, the day I'm having/my mood. Nonetheless, I don't respond as much, at home sometimes; I just walk off. Other times I simply say, "not today…maybe another day," and if I'm feeling bold, "it's not a good day & I am not in the mood." JUST BEING HONEST! In my other environments, I am vocal enough and say, "I really don't want to resort to violence" or "I am not choosing violence" I would sigh or smile and walk off. After all, I don't have the mental capacity for it, primarily because I'm working on myself. I have discovered that people tend to get riled up with me because I no longer react. It's funny because the more calm I am, the more frustrated and violent they become. Boy, this recently happened to me – I won't speak on it for now. Not until the "time" is right (I'll just do a video).
Growth. I've grown a lot though I still have days, and the journey isn't always easy. I've been growing. Even my mommy would tell me, "Don't Choose Violence," when she knew someone upset me and I "might" want to be petty. I am incredibly thankful for my spiritual journey because the most superficial things would still bother me if it wasn't for that. Not to mention I was under conviction for it. I have more control now because sometimes the "flesh" is tested, and LORD KNOWSSSSS! So, no. I am not choosing violence. Why? Because I am trying to do and be better. I can't expect God to bless me and make moves in my life if I don't allow him to fight my battles, not to mention, as the Bible verse says, "Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret—it leads only to evil." I don't want to be "evil," well, in my case, "petty," though some people sometimes deserve it!
With that being said…I encourage YOU not to choose violence as your "Mother of Bloomers" is doing. Yes, I know it is not always easy, and yes, some situations deserve it, but still. These Uncircumcised Philistines don't deserve it, and in some cases…better to walk away with a smile (even if it looks wicked). Have a GREAT day; I love you all, and of course
